Pronouns (he/they)

 

I first experienced Shibari as part of a photoshoot with a trusted friend. It was the first time I had ever fully allowed another person to have control of my body without fear – the whole experience lasted no more than an hour. He tied me in a TK and treated me with gentleness and care as he arranged me in beautiful poses on a day bed, and left me in such a state of bliss that I felt compelled to keep chasing that feeling over and over. I have since spent the last 6 years doing exactly that. 

 

I have been bottoming for 6 years as the dedicated bunny of Ropey Jen, Lifesastory and Kopitan/Kinbakuboy, and learning to tie for 2 years under the guidance of Supaku, Akechi Kanna and Kopitan/Kinbakuboy. 

In my early days I took lessons with Miss Gen & Basanos, and continue to learn from Ropey Jen everytime we tie both as a rigger and bottom. 

Outside of play, I have been modeling for photoshoot-rope with my partner for almost 5 years, and have since begun my journey as a photoshoot rigger. 

 

Rope Haus is an opportunity for me to share my bottom focused experience over the last 6 years, tying with some of the countries most skilled and ambitious riggers, and having gained a wealth of knowledge through these interactions. 

 

As most people are aware, my focus is on awareness of self, accountability, and communication. 

My goal with Rope Haus is to provide education and resources on effective bottom-led communication in intimate and performance spaces. 

 

I believe mitigating risk in consenting dynamics, starts with self awareness and a broad understanding of one’s own expectations in rope, then following that up with both clear communication and adjustment of expectations based on experience. 

 

My aim is to provide rope models with the communication skills and knowledge to understand their needs and desires in rope, where they want to take their experiences and how to effectively express this with their tying partners, how to manage expectations for a scene and self regulation as well as advocating for oneself after the fact, to ensure maximum fulfilment from both ends. 

 

As well as this, I hope to prepare models for the challenges, differences and excitement of performing in rope, addressing how this can affect or change the dynamic with their riggers, and managing expectations to keep a cohesive flow between performance and play. 

 

I believe I can offer the community extremely valuable insight into the world of active & passive bottoming, performance bottoming, kink dynamics, platonic tying experience and photoshoot modelling.

 

I want this project to encompass the broader community, with a trans and LGBTQI+ aligned value set that exemplifies inclusively and warmth, where everyone understands and celebrates their value as a person deserving of fun and safe experiences in rope.